Where people learn to get along better
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Where people learn to get along better
Since 2016, our "Advanced Family And Dependency Court Mediation-40" has been a prerequisite to join our elite team of dependency court and adoption court mediators.
Beginning in 2025, for the first time, we are offering this California Judicial Counsel-approved adaptation of our 40-hour course to the public.
We believe all professionals can
Since 2016, our "Advanced Family And Dependency Court Mediation-40" has been a prerequisite to join our elite team of dependency court and adoption court mediators.
Beginning in 2025, for the first time, we are offering this California Judicial Counsel-approved adaptation of our 40-hour course to the public.
We believe all professionals can and should learn the skills of the most successful mediators and negotiators.
This program is based on our "1,000 Mediation Lessons Learned".
California Judicial Counsel-approved education is designed to meet your education requirements and your high expectations.
Our Flagship Education Program
All SoCal Family Mediation co-mediators complete this program.
This highly advanced and unexpected mediation education program is currently only available to Southern California Family Mediation's newest team members.
Learn first-of-their-kind perspectives, strategies, and tools. Our veteran mediators have been forged in the fires of the highest conflict dependency and adoption scenarios.
Your investment in conflict communication excellence will provide you and your team with greater leverage, impressive outcomes, and reduced collateral stress often as
Learn first-of-their-kind perspectives, strategies, and tools. Our veteran mediators have been forged in the fires of the highest conflict dependency and adoption scenarios.
Your investment in conflict communication excellence will provide you and your team with greater leverage, impressive outcomes, and reduced collateral stress often associated with high conflict environments and seemingly unsolvable conflicts.
Our team of experienced meditators is dedicated to helping you understand mediation and conflict communications in a new way.
In appreciation for your generous investment in Peace through Southern California Family Mediation, a 501(c)3, it is our pleasure to gift you this free learning opportunity.
Forged in the fires of high conflict communication, our veteran co-mediators are pleased to share their stories of victory and lessons learned with you.
Building the to
In appreciation for your generous investment in Peace through Southern California Family Mediation, a 501(c)3, it is our pleasure to gift you this free learning opportunity.
Forged in the fires of high conflict communication, our veteran co-mediators are pleased to share their stories of victory and lessons learned with you.
Building the tools and developing stronger ways of managing difficult relationships may well turn out to be one of the best investments you ever make.
We all need a mediator sometimes. When you are personally prepared, you will make managing disputes for yourself and others look easy.
Mediation is the only form of Assisted Dispute Engagement (mediation, arbitration, litigation) for which volition is a defining quality.
If the people don't decide, it's not mediation.
Greetings Mediator,
Did you know, you’re a mediator every time you help at least two other people negotiate their challenges (as long as, in the end, the choice is theirs). We will empower you to become a GREAT mediator!
Sincerely, Mediator Drew and the SCFM Team
Rapid: What can be accomplished can often be achieved faster, in proportion to the skill and experience of the mediator(s).
Teleological mediation is defined by the the service it delivers. "Radical responsibility for process" means, while it may not be our fault, if it happens during our mediation, it's our responsibility . Best practices are determined by outcomes.
Dialectic mediation harnesses the creative power of opposing forces by coalescing multiple truths into a coherent synthesis of co-maximized benefits.
Agreement Creation: A clear Definition of Success is a vital component of future-focused accomplishments. Mediated Agreements provide fresh starts, new beginnings, road maps and plans.
Every mediation is a conflict engagement workshop...
like a cooking class for agreements.
~ Pass it on.
Mediation is: voluntary assisted negotiation.
Mediation is freedom.
Mediation is interpersonal empowerment skills-building.
Mediation is the world's best hope, because we currently remain a conflict-ignorant species.
Healthy conflict is natural part of life.
Conflict can be frozen, ripened, contoured, mitigated, managed, or resolved.
A great mediator does more than add it all up & whack it in half.
A great mediator is a guide, a coach, an educator, and a negotiator of acumen.
TIPS
1. To get creative, get curious.
2. Words matter. Don't get pinned by a false dichotomy (a restricted choice).
3. Remember OPS: Organize + Prioritize +Strategize.
"Sometimes, when you find mediation, mediation finds you."
Best regards,
Mediator el Randy Drew
Co-founder and Mediation and Education Director,
Southern California Family Mediation Inc.